Enlightening

You may recall that from time to time we highlight the differences and similarities between the English and French. For example, when our Mayor was arrested and charged with trespassing on the railway line whilst demonstrating about fewer trains stopping at Gourdon station. By the way, initially he and two other local mayors were found not guilty, but the prosecution then appealed and recently they were found guilty but no fine was imposed. However, John has just read that after two years of campaigning, most of the reductions have been reinstated. There is a moral here somewhere. Viva la difference!!

Whilst being holed up in the recent adverse weather we have both read a very interesting book called "The Secret Life Of France". It was written by an English lady (daughter of the cousin of a friend of mine - just to add the personal interest) who has lived in France for over twenty years. It would appear that lots of French attitudes stem from the Revolution, for example the right to demonstrate. We are always commenting that all towns and villages have beautiful flower displays and at Christmas lovely lights, with never a comment about "it being a waste of money!". All verges, hedges and trees are regularly trimmed and we now realise that is because the French worship beauty. Not only in women but in all aspects of life. Talking of women, apparently "sex" is regarded as a very necessary human activity and to be freely discussed with Health Professionals (glad I'm old). Infidelity is not regarded as a taboo and consequently they do not have the equivalent of The Sun with lurid headlines about politicians. Making money for its own sake is to be deplored and very American, I assume that is why we are still waiting for the electrican to come.!! To obtain a job in the public sector is coveted. It is not easy to get in, with exams etc to be passed, but is regarded as a job for life with super pensions at a relatively early age (55). Mr Sarkosy is trying to bring such attitudes into the twenty first century but with little success.

"Ideas" are the main stay of French culture and a philosophical approach to life is very important. Endless hours are spent discussing ideas and little changes. People have a strong affinity to their roots and the rural lifestyle even though they have moved to the large towns . Hence lots of Parisiennes have homes in our area and wouldn't dream of selling them even though they only stay for the annual four weeks summer holiday - another hard won privilege not to be surrendered.

We are delighted to be able to understand the culture of our adopted country better. Another friend asked her French friend to read the book and she confirmed that it was spot on, but she was not sure about the sex!!

PS We've got to stop gloating . It's been snowing now for about 24 hours and the temperature has stayed about -3 all day. Not nice!